Common Courtesy

I don't know... It's been a while since I last wrote in this blog.

I just. you know. I've reached a level where I don't see the point in why do you need to see people as lower than you? Why would you actually do that? Why do you have to be so mean? To everyone.

So you'll look cool? Awesome? Yeah you think you are. But you actually aren't.

What makes you better than other people? What is it the thing that makes you good? Appearance? Money? Insults towards others? Or the way you make fun of everyone? That is your self-proclaimed great attitude of yourself.

You see, when you're actually awesome, or a good person; you don't have to think of bad things towards others. You don't have to feel more superior if you're actually really good.

See what I mean?

When you're a real good person, you don't have to think negatively of other people. I

If you really think that you are better than other people, then your everyone-is-lame-I'm-the-cool attitude is not relevant because that attitude shows that you have low self-esteem. You need to put others lower than you then only you'll be able to put yourself at higher level.

Well, that's how negative you are and how you see yourself as a person whose confidence level is there when only there's a chance to make fun of other people.

It's very unnecessary and childish too, to make fun of people. It's like, you don't have any respect towards others, so why bother if people don't respect you?

Think about it. Ponder. Deep in your heart, do you actually know what kind of person you are. right now? I mean what you've been doing to people, friends, or just random strangers; are you good to them? Or you're just the person who thinks highly of him/herself and nobody's better than you?

Think about it. Do you like, what you've been doing to others? And do you like it, if people did the same thing to you?

Do you like the person you are now?

Do you realize what kind of person you've become?

Do you know how you actually behave?

Do you have some respect towards others?

If not, then you're in trouble.

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Ocean

I've been thinking about a lot of things lately, and have no idea how to express them. Going on my mind. I try to measure life, and it all brings me back to the most basic moment. The moment when you stop breathing.

Somehow, not everyone is able to be living their dream and some are just lucky enough to do the things they like. The rest of them, they must try to love their job in order to survive this world.

Nevertheless, I keep thinking of what is my most likely achievable and possible dream. I don't know, and I'm not sure. Plus, if some other time in the future I found my dreams; will I be able to fullfil them? Or I'm just going to keep them until the day I die.

I think I'm just going with the flow. Surely I have desire to get what I want (in material);  but I really don't know what I want in life. Love, Success, Happiness. Other than that? 

Two things that never stop going on my mind.

Dreams and Death

Both are exactly opposite to each other, and only God knows when will I meet them.

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What makes me what I am, if it isn't my childhood?

It's true, isn't it?

What we've become, is absolutely of what we'd been experiencing when we were little. I mean, when I was little.

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Is the glass half empty or half full?

How do you view life?

Imagine a glass of water, but it is not full-filled.

Would you see that the glass is half-full or half-empty?

Some might see it as half-empty and others might as well see it vice-versa. 

"Is the glass half empty or half full?"

This phrase/idiom is a common expression to determine one's point of view and the way he perceives things. Everyone thinks differently from each other and there are always two types of thinking. 

Pessismism and Optimism.

People who see the glass as half-empty can be pessimistic (negative) while people who see it half-full is optimistic, which is positive.

 Expectations in "Half Full" 

Few drinks are expected to take up half of the glass. If one is expecting a normal drink, one is expecting a full drink. If one sees the drink at half capacity and declares it to be half full, they are making the implicit admission that it is half more than what they expected or are currently imagining. In other words, half full is only half full when compared to a glass that is completely empty. This "completely empty" alternative is what one has in mind when they declare a drink to be half full.

Expectations in "Half Empty"  

One who sees a glass at half capacity to be half empty is expecting a drink filled to normal, full capacity. The deviation from their expectation is that the glass has less than what they expected, or are currently imagining. In other words, the glass is half empty only when compared to a glass that is full. The "full" alternative is what one has in mind when they declare a glass to be half empty.Optimistic or Pessimistic?The popular understanding of the half full or half empty question is that the person who claims that the glass is half full is appreciating the fact that they are in possession of half a glass, whereas the person who claims the drink is half empty is bemoaning the fact that they have less than a full glass. Therefore, the person who claims the glass is half full is dubbed optimistic, whereas the person who claims the glass is half empty is dubbed pessimistic.

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Seriously, I'm a great loser. Anyone who follows my blog should already know that I have low self-esteem and confidence. I sometimes see it half-empty because of my negative thinking.

Nevertheless, I think I'm both. Sometimes I figure that there is still half-full water in the glass. My mind keep telling me that after something bad happened, there will be another hope of bright future. It is like, after I had thought of the worst thing, I eventually ended up thinking of the best thing that could happen in my situation. 

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I keep asking myself why can't I be beautiful and pretty like other people? Why is that? I always find myself as an ugly duckling which would never be the beautiful swan. Then, the other side of me answer the question; 

"That is because I am special and has the knowledge. Good looks is just a distraction from knowing the real myself" 

I realize that I don't have to be a beautiful swan just like everybody else. All I need is to stop being the ugly duckling because you become what do you think you are. Think positive and be optimistic is what I really need to do and the optimism that I instill in my mind, shall remain still.

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Thought to ponder, if you keep seeing the glass as half-empty, in the long run, you'll always become the weak ugly duckling.

Footnote: Everyday I tell myself that I'm beautiful, and pretty, and somewhat with brain. A beautiful swan might be beautiful but it shows no signs of brilliant brain.

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Blogs

I love blogging because I love how my writings appear on the screen, with selected fonts and proper style of typing. #mcjustquote

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My Thing

I always write something poetic, and I find myself quite a quote-lover. Yeah it's true. You know that I always write when I think of something that had happened to me or anybody around me. It is natural, and from the deepest of my heart. I think I should keep myself writing this quote-thingy, who knows someday someone will recognize and appreciate it as my intellect-property.

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stimulus, where are you? I need to be more discipline

I need to be very discipline in my daily diet. it keeps bothering me and I'm afraid if I cannot burn my fats and get slimmer at all. and I'm more afraid if I will be getting any bigger and chubbier. it drives me crazy when I look at people who has achieved their weight goals. how did they do that?

this semester holiday I think I want to eat oats but it's hard to not to eat rice and foods cooked by my mother. it will be scary if I just eat and sit in front of my laptop watching movies or playing Sims 3 games. I need a bicycle! I need a bicycle! this is the only way for me to get slimmer and more fit!

dancing? it will be pretty much embarassing if I dance as my elder brother and my brother-in-law are always home. yeah we live together in a house as a big family and I don't have my own room. so sad but that is the truth. for now I use my mother's room as my father has gone.

back to discipline, how to be very very discipline? I really need a stimulus to influence me.

this is crap. I always talk craps. erkk.

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love is not only a feeling, but a great one

it is human nature to love and to be loved.

go back and hug your family,
hug your father,
hug your mother,
hug your brother,
hug your sister,
hug your lover,
hug your friends,

and tell them,

"I LOVE YOU"


you don't know how much it means to them. it is really wonderful to know that you are loved by somebody.


;)

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choices

it's all about your choice. everyday you have two choices. it's up to you whether to choose to be in a good mood, or to be in a bad mood. I choose to be in a good mood. if something bad happen then, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. 

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if children were to rule the world

last two days, my classmates and I were given topic 'If Children Were to Rule the World' by our lecturer.

yeahh. the topic was really interesting.

we thought critically in order to make a good thesis statement from the argumentative topic.

from what I have worked out, I came out with this:


"If children were to rule the world, the world will become a much happier and safer place to live in."

isn't it true?

look around you and read all those news about world condition.

wars and corruptions are everywhere.

politicians are such dirty douche-bags.

pollution increases day by day.


if children were to rule the world,
there must be a cheerful and peaceful environment.


if children were to rule the world,
no such things like bribes and black money will occur.


if children were to rule the world,
every place is a playground.


if children were to rule the world,
the world will become the largest and most happening theme park.



and...



there must be a lot of chocolate factories I suppose!


footnote: if only children were our world leaders...

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time

yeaah.
I suddenly realize,

that time runs while you wait.

so the action is on you.

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cruel and dirty world

the world is not bright,
like really, really dark I suppose.
everyday we are surrounded by dirts,
by crimes,
by innocent bastards,
by liars and cheats.

I don't have any idea of how my future children will live in this kind of cruel world.

like, really seriously no idea, at all.

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lives with people

we live just the same way with others,
but others don't live their life the same way with us.

trust me.

everyone has their own dark, deepest secret.


*am I being too obsessed with 'Dexter' tv series?

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I'm a loner

being alone doesn't always mean there is nobody around you,
sometimes you just feel it within yourself.

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