Child Development VS Parenting Skills

I see parents are not the same. There are mothers and fathers who use the hard way in dealing with their children. Loud voices, scoldings, screamings, and everything that's hard for children to accept and makes them cry. I cannot do anything for that child, except for praying in my heart. I know that I'm not a parent yet, and I don't know how does it feel to have a child on my own. Delivering babies, changing diapers, waking up late at night for the babies, but at least I know how to make the milk for babies.

I can't stand people who scold and scream loudly right in front of their child's face until the child cry. As if these people have no heart and feelings at all. Do they ever think that when they were babies, their parents used to take a really good care and love them so much? I mean, yes the scolding part was surely there. But, scolding their own children and threatening to beat the guiltless ones, is not a good parenting skill.

Still, for me to stop the people who did that to their child, is hopeless. Who knows I might get beaten or punched straight on my face for my crime-less deeds. Even though I don't learn the subject Child Development this semester, but at least, I know how to treat babies and children right. Yes, make them be discipline. Be strict with them. Let them be independent.

But,

Don't go hard on them or beat them vigorously as what you like because they will do the same to you when they are grown ups and at that time, you will realize you are too old to fight them back.

That's why I jump into this conclusion,
A Good Child Development needs Good Parenting Skills.

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